We all can agree that the traditional ways of doing long term commitment i.e. marriage, is NOT working. Obviously, right?  Yet people keep doing it the same ole ways and expecting different results. Um, isn’t that the definition of stupid? The Desire Oh, we all know those rare magical couples that have made it work well for 50 years. Everyone thinks they will [...]

    If your woman has sex with you out of a sense of obligation, to get something in return she is a prostitute. i.e. most wives.   If your woman will ONLY have sex because she really, really desires to and would never do so out of a sense of obligation, than she is [...]

It’s true that it takes two in order to create a motivation rich environment for an intimate relationship to thrive. Internal motivation is the main ingredient that makes a partnership succeed. Obligation never created any successful union. It is simply true that it is instinctual to protect ourselves and a major triumph of transcendence to partner successfully. Partnership is a choice that must be made [...]

Porn/ Erotica generally focuses on performance, but Next Level Sexual Expression focuses on the impact intimacy and sexual coupling has on the individuals in a physical, emotional and spiritual way as well as offering the world an increased level of love consciousness. To be awake and fully there in every area of your life is [...]

I don’t use the old 1-10 system to rate women in my programs. There are 2 types of females as they relate to a men in my book and this isn’t demeaning, its honest and functional. There are only 1′s and 2′s Stage 1 1′s are Fuckable (to you) 2′s are Not Fuckable (to you) [...]

original art by Todd Bailey Today’s headlines read: Love Life Coach has Epic Fail and Survives! So every now and then we go on a date or finally get to hang out with someone we have had an attraction to and one or the other dater thinks it went great or that it was, at [...]

  So in case you did not already know, there is a sub cultural men’s movement called Pick Up Artists (PUAs) also known as the Seduction Community that does a great deal of good in the world, but also a great deal of marketing based on hyping up frustrated guys that are not getting any [...]

As a professional therapist/attraction coach for over 15 years, I have spent a great deal of my life listening to thousands of stories from men (and on the rare occasion, a wife of one of these men) of hurt and suffering. It blows my mind that all the stories of marriages which have become sexuality [...]

  Men that are successful with women have a mind set of abundance. They take great pleasure in figuring out a new woman. What she loves. How she enjoys being touched. He isn’t afraid of getting it “wrong” because for him there is no wrong, just the joy of exploration.  Men that don’t feel competent with women [...]

. Do great lovers focus on their woman cumming first? Yeah not so much.. Many nice guys that claim “Giver” status and end up turning women off sexually due to them being in their head about her having to climax first.  This becomes approval seeking and pressure on her at some point. What she wants [...]